Lecture 1.4: What you are required to do in Ramadhan:
6. Do not waste your time by going to movies or watching television.
7. Do not stay up so late at night that you are not able to wake up for Sahur (the predawn meal) or Salât-ul-Fajr, or go to work in the morning. The Prophet peace be upon him said:
اللَّهُمَّ بَارِك لأمتي في بكورها». [صحيح رواه أحمد الترمذي].
"Oh Allâh, bless my Ummah in their early mornings (acts)." (Ahmad and Tirmidhi, and it is authentic.)
[Ummah is sometimes translated as nation, or community of believers, or followers. Each Prophet had an Ummah that he was sent to. The word Ummah is usually used for the people who believed in the Prophet.]
8. Increase spending in charity on relatives and the needy. Visit your relatives, and make peace with those with whom you have had disputes.
9. Increase your remembrance of Allâh, recitation of Qur'ân, listening to it, and contemplation of its meanings. Act on it and attend the beneficial discussions in the mosques. Practise I'tikaf (secluding oneself for the purpose of worship) in the Masjid at the end of Ramadhan (this is Sunnah).
10. Read the pamphlets on fasting to learn its rules. For instance, if you ate or drank, forgetting that you were fasting, it doesn't break the fast (but you have to stop immediately as soon as you realize what you're doing). Another example: A person who became Junub at night (because of intercourse, for example), and he doesn't get a chance to perform a Ghusl (bath) before the appearance of dawn, that doesn't prevent him from fasting; he just has to perform the Ghusl and offer Salât and go ahead and observe Sawm (fast).
11. Be mindful of the fast of Ramadhân, and get your children used to it when they are able to endure it. Beware of breaking the fast without a valid excuse. Whoever does so must repent for that and make up for that day, and whoever has intercourse with his wife during the daytime of Ramadhan he has to expiate the sin. He must free a slave if he's able to do so. If not, he should fast two months continuously (60 days without missing a day); and if he can't do that, he should feed 60 poor persons one meal.
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